I live in the UK where we have been in lockdown for just over two months now. Our Prime Minister has announced the start of easing to lockdown and instead of feeling good that things might begin the slow return to normal life I’ve realised that I don’t really want lockdown to end.
I’ve been chronically ill since August 2016; my days are a mix of groundhog days – in bed in awful pain, on the toilet with diarrhoea or dragging myself through the treacle of brain fog and fatigue. I don’t always manage to shower or bathe once a week. I don’t always remember important events. I can’t leave my house whenever I want to.
Lockdown has protected me from feeling like I’m letting people down, it’s levelled the playfield so even on a day when I’m unable to get out of bed (except for the toilet) I’m not having to explain it to anyone. No-one is calling round to see how I’m going and thereby unintentionally reminding me that I’m a mess and making me see how crappy life is right now.
My life isn’t all that different to everyone else’s right now.
I’m frightened of lockdown ending. I’m scared of being reminded all the time that everyone else’s lives are moving forward whilst my groundhog life continues. I hate living like this and being helpless to improve things. My health isn’t something I can control, I’ve tried everything from diet to acupuncture and an awful lot of pharmaceuticals.
I didn’t realise how much I loved my life until it all fell away, no matter how hard I tried to cling to the wreckage it just left me. An empty shell left on a dusty shelf.
My life isn’t all that different to everyone else’s right now
I just want to hold on to that.